If you don't have anyone nebary that you trust with Emily, then take her along. Take a nanny with you (Grandma, neice, cousin)..or see what daycare options are available to you at the hotel. You just need to explore your options.I didn't want to ever leave my children at all when they were small..no one could take as good of care of them as me! BUT you have to over come those feelings for you and for Emily and for your husband too:)